plans for the weekend

New Years eve is tomorrow.    Today – it’s 10:22 and I have been up for 1/2 hour.   I checked email, and read blogs and that about covers it.  I haven’t slept that late in so long.   My parents also slept that late and my  mother is already doing laundry.  Seriously, I think she was going through withdrawal from not doing it yesterday.

Today – we have bagels and  white fish and kipper salmon and stuff (from NY for brunch.  Then some shopping.   Maybe I will finally get my tv   I think we are sister bound later since the princess is sleeping over tonite.   Babysitting tomorrow and then NYE festivities.

Mr. Fab and Shortie wanted to come so I said of course, just bring stuff to dip in chocolate.

Any one else who wants to come-  stop by.


Yeah so

I hope everyone had a good Christmas, or as I call it Tuesday and a day off from work.

I had a nice day, my mom, dad, aunt & uncle came over. Then my dad aunt & uncle left and my mom sister, niece and I hung out….finally got the Princess to take a nap because she was a big crank pot, then ordered sushi and then my sister and niece went home and my mom slept over. My sister is off today so she will come pick my mom up and they will do stuff today and then my mom is gonna watch the kid tomorrow and Friday then I go – bring her back to my house and my dad will come here and we will all be here for new years

Yeah, New Years eve – looking to be a big party- but we will have fondue

I’m not mean, I’m from New York

There are a few new people starting in my department at work. They had to go to training out of state for 1.5 weeks and had to drive a company car. One of the people T lives around the corner from me and asked if I would drop her off at work so she didn’t have to leave her car sitting in the parking lot. I said of course.

T, C, R & MT were in training and talking and R asked T how she got to the office if she didn’t leave her car. T said Rachel dropped me off.

R was shocked – you get along with Rachel. T was like – yeah – she is great – really funny and sweet and will go out of her way to help you (I do sometimes) C agreed.

R again SHOCKED said Rachel – wears glasses – use to be a redhead- that Rachel – She is really mean and I am sorta scared of her

T C & MT were just staring at her. Couldn’t believe it. They were like – no you just got her on a bad day.

T was telling me this. Apparently I got annoyed at R one day because she highlighted med records with a red magic marker and made them impossible to read – actually she didn’t the person who had the file before her did, but seriously – if you need something and you can’t read it, common sense tells you to get a clean copy from the person who gave the other copy. I have no patience for stupidity or incompetence. At all So because I said something to her I am mean. And she is afraid of me. You have no idea how much I enjoy that idea. That cracks me up and I am so going to play off it.

Both T & C said – she’s not mean, she may seem like that but really – it’s NY attitude and she isn’t like that at all.

Ok – here’s the thing I am mean. No really I am. Ask anyone of my friends. I am mean but I am not a mean person. I say what I think and if you are stupid or do something that isn’t right – I will call you on it. If your work isn’t correct – I am gonna tell you, that way you do it correctly next time and know why it’s wrong. It’s constructive criticism, not being mean.

I can’t wait till I have to help her with stuff.


My DVR is breaking again.    I should just get a TIVO   it’s less expensive (like 3 whole dollars) but I don’t know how it works with cable and on demand and stuff.

I hate having to figure this stuff out.


My bed frame broke.  I wish I could say it was from something fun (sorry bro) but I was changing the sheets and moved the mattress and box spring and the bottom frame broke.    I would like to buy a new bed –  the same frame is 299$ –  but the effin store won’t take the old frame away.     I have to remember to call them to see if I can just get it fixed.

I dropped off a prescription today to put on hold for valium.  That way I can get my MRI in January.  I figure – put the script on hold – then I won’t lose it.

I am sorta finally caught up at work.  Sorta.   2 days behind in mail which I can get though tomorrow.   I hate work    Lottery is 115 million.   Maybe I should go play.

This is why I am tired

Friday  J & I left work at 12 to go to a wedding in LI.   It took way to long to get there but get there we did and had a good time.

BUT   if you are out of college DRINKING AND FEELING UP ANOTHER WOMEN IS TACKY  It’s not sexy, it’s not hot and the men who come over ARE DRUNK ALSO

(the bride and groom, they gots some classy friends)

The plus,  got to see some friends from the old office.   Mainly the work husband.   And his real life wife who was amazing.

Got back to Jersey on Sat around 1 or so     did nothing –  I was so tired it didn’t even occur to me to bring my bag up as I was walking up the stairs.    I watched some tv, caught up on my dvr and went to bed.   Today –  no plans which is good.

Monday I go to the ortho to have my arm looked at and either have him cut it off or  prescribe more physical therapy.  I am thinking he is going to give me another script.  But I think that I am going to try to get an MRI  not because of the sweet sweet drugs I would have to take but because I am pretty sure I have a tear in my shoulder (the labrum to be exact)   I hope it isn’t because then I need surgery and am out of work for almost 6 weeks –  but wait –  OUT OF WORK FOR 6 WEEKS

(is it bad I would rather be in mass quantities of pain and have surgery then go to my hell job)

Right now, I am sitting in bed and it sounds like it’s raining out.   I admit, I’m not wearing my glasses but I am facing the window and I don’t see rain but no joke  I hear it –  strange.   I have pictures (sort of, J has pics of me, I have pics of her) so when I get them – I will post pictures of me with my new shorter hair in my hot red dress.